Dating and inexperienced guy
Discuss these matters upfront to prevent confusion or bad feelings later on.
I don’t judge them for wanting to move really fast so I don’t want them to judge me for needing some sort of emotional connection or a bit more time to feel excited and enjoy it. So, just because a guy may want to kiss you on the first date, doesn’t mean it’s a great idea. I don’t think Brooke is looking for permission or validation to do things her way, I think she’s looking for pointers on HOW to do it more gracefully. If a guy reaches in to kiss you and you cut him dead right there, then yes you are at risk for ruining the moment and damaging his ego and it could just make things too awkward.
You want to do the right thing and have a fun, relaxing time on your date, as well as help her do the same -- and you can.
Make your date comfortable: This is of paramount importance, as many inexperienced women are shy on dates and have a hard time opening up.
Talk about mutual interests, or a hobby or talent she enjoys.
Express interest when she tells you about her life; don't make her feel that little quirks or eccentricities make her unlikeable. Avoid confusion regarding specific arrangements, such as whether you will meet at a predetermined relationship or pick her up. Clarify your intention to pay for the meal and similar details.